Erica Hale
Bio
I am 30, live in small town, USA, and am married. Living life one day at a time.
Stories (6/0)
My Journey Through Infertility
"I do," I said on that beautiful spring April day in 2012 as I finally, finally got to marry the woman of my dreams. We were pronounced married and we walked down the aisle with the biggest smiles, in great anticipation of a weekend of peace, quiet, and each other. Our honeymoon was perfection: quiet, laid back, with plenty of time to do whatever we wanted or nothing at all. Coming back home made reality set in and we soon became bogged down in unpacking, organizing and money struggles--you know, first year of marriage things.
By Erica Hale6 years ago in Families
It All Started When I Was a Child
"Don't kill anyone, Erica! Calm down!" My peers would tell me when I was around 12 years old. I've always had issues expressing myself in a calm and even-mannered way. You could say I had anger issues. It took very little to set me off and it was like a bomb.
By Erica Hale6 years ago in Psyche
I'll Never Ask for Help
I can generally feel the panic attacks coming. I have some indication earlier in the day or I had a dream the night before that will almost certainly set me off, given the right triggers later. I know enough about my trauma and my past to know what "gets me going," as they say. This enlightenment has come from years of therapy and self-reflection, as well as mountains of input from my spouse.
By Erica Hale6 years ago in Psyche
I Get Knocked Down
Lately, I have felt like it has been one thing after another. Like I am one of those Bobo toys that you hit and it just pops right back up or a Weeble that wobbles but it doesn’t fall down. I have cried, stayed up nights overthinking everything and been irritable and cranky at even the best of times. Add a stressful job and family troubles to that mix and it becomes a feat of strength to even get out of bed in the morning.
By Erica Hale6 years ago in Psyche
My Anxieties Have Anxiety
On any given day, I wake up with half a dozen thoughts, concerns, fears, or ideas running through my head. These thoughts can range from my to-do list for the day to the argument my husband and I had before bed. Some mornings, it is the vague flashes of images from the endless dreams I experienced during the night due to my brain working endlessly to process my emotions and triggers.
By Erica Hale6 years ago in Psyche